“You are enough, you are so enough, it’s unbelievable how enough you are” -Sierra Boggess
This past few weeks have been ones of tons of contemplation. There has been a lot of falling on my face and feeling “not good enough” and doing tons of comparing my life to what it “should be.” There is still the what comes next question, it still lingers in the back on my mind. I think no matter where you are in life its always “what’s next?” When are you having kids? When are you getting married?
At the end of the day we don’t have to have all of the answers, and our worth isn’t determined by them. You don’t need to have the answers. That’s the greatest scam of all, no one has all the answers. Your worth isn’t determined by the dollars in your bank account, the car you drive or the job you have. You are enough as you are. Know your worth and then add tax!
Don’t let the world tell you that you need to be something, you should be doing something or that your life should be something. Should is a dangerous word, should tells you what society expects verses what makes your soul happy. When you decide your own value it’s much easier to demand and know your worth.
Never let someone tell you that you need to be something, you should be doing something or that your life should be something. Life never works out the way we plan it to. IT’S OK! There are days its really hard to feel like you are “making it” as an adult, but you are! Are you going to work and paying bills and somehow making it happen day to day? Then yes! You are successfully aduting. Never let anyone give you crap if you are happy!